Family and Friends
Being the parent, friend or loved one of someone with an eating disorder can be very difficult. It can bring up many feelings like guilt, blame, frustration, fear and powerlessness, just to name a few. If someone you care about is struggling with an eating disorder it is important to know that help is available and recovery is possible. The sooner one enters treatment for the eating disorder, the easier it is to recover because the behaviors are less entrenched. Having said this, it is never too late to begin treatment, however, it may take longer to resolve.
Many parents blame themselves when their child or loved one develops an eating disorder. It is true that in some cases, family dynamics and issues contribute to the development of an eating disorder. Genetic research is currently underway to determine what role family genes play as well. But there are also many other contributing factors outside the family that are influential, such as the person’s temperament and biochemistry, trauma, dieting and our thin-obsessed culture. When any of these factors are present in a vulnerable person an eating disorder can develop.
When someone has an eating disorder it can affect the entire family, their friends and loved ones. Talking to someone knowledgeable about eating disorders and discussing how to deal with those affected can be very helpful. Not only does it provide much needed support during a critical time, it gives you a place to voice your feelings, ask questions and receive guidance on how best to help your loved one. Please contact me if you have further questions or would like to make an appointment.
For more information on this topic and general eating disorder information go to the Eating Disorder Resources page.